Hey, If you're a cheating spouse, don't read this post! We've all heard the argument that the internet and modern technology makes it easier for wayward partners - spouses, finances, boyfriends and girlfriends - to be unfaithful.
With email, Facebook, IM and text messaging, there seems to be a million ways to "hook up" outside of our committed relationships and not get caught.
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If you're a cheating spouse, don't read this post!
Many of us have been burned before. Many of us have learned firsthand just how sleazy the internet can be and how easy it is for our partners to carry on little trysts via text message...
Um, Tiger Woods, anyone? Jesse James? Practically every philandering man in the public eye has been busted using his cell phone to contact his mistresses.
If you suspect that your man is cheating, I have a trick that might help you figure it out.
It's called Slydial.
What is it? It is a voice messaging service that directly connects you to someone's voicemail...without the phone ever ringing.
Of course it wasn't created to check up on your husband's errant phones calls listed on your cell phone bill - it was actually made to save time when you didn't want to really to talk to anyone, but wanted to leave a message.
Think about when you are calling in sick to work - you don't want to actually speak to your boss, so you Slydial them and get straight into their voicemail. *cough*
Of course, once a few smart women figured out "Hey, I can call that new number that's been on Hubby's phone bill every morning at 3 am without them actually seeing the phone ring or catching my number..." Well, the rest, as they say, is history.
Here's how it works:
- Dial 267-SLYDIAL (267-759-3425) from any landline or mobile phone.
- At the voice prompt, enter the U.S. mobile phone number of the person you want to slydial.
- You will be directly connected to their voicemail. If you hear, "Hi, this is Slutty McSlut Slut" then case closed.
If you have one of these smart phones, you don't even have to worry about remembering the phone number when you want to do some investigative work!
Chances are, you've been cheated on before. Your husband is suddenly working late, seems distracted...and you're starting to worry. That nagging suspicion you're feeling? Don't just sit there and let it fester. Do something about it.
Fortunately, I didn't find out about Slydial from firsthand experience - otherwise, this would be an entirely different I HATE MEN post.
My friend recently found out her boyfriend was cheating...because she called all of the new numbers showing up on her phone bill with Slydial and they were all women.
She has some serious cajones, that one. She started calling them all once she realized that they were all women that she'd never heard of...and one of them admitted to her that she had been seeing her boyfriend.
Of course she was devastated. Relationship? Over.
I wanted to share this awesome service with y'all because really, this is a total game changer. How many women see those weird phone numbers on their partner's phone but are too afraid to call and have to speak with the person on the other end of the line?
Or are afraid they will see your phone number calling and will put two and two together? Slydial takes out all of the risk.
Tracy
Oh Slydial, fighting technology with more technology! At the end of the day, the truth always comes out in the wash, or in this case the voicemail!!!
Jenn
ROFLMA
Jen
"3.You will be directly connected to their voicemail. If you hear, “Hi, this is Slutty McSlut Slut” then case closed"
ROFL!
Jenn
That is an inside joke between the girl that discovered the service and I...LOL But it's funny to everyone!
Katie
ooh this is AWESOME!
Stephanie
They need to come up with a version of this for text messages. LOL
Mellisa
I love this!!! There are so many times that I needed to call into work and I did not want to talk to the boss, this would have been GREAT!
John
Case Closed.
A. Tatum Jr
Stumbled Upon your post. Sly Dial has come along way. I first wrote about it in 2008 when it was just in the Alpha phase. Nice to see they've expanded and have apps now.
Jenn
Thanks! I didn't know it had been around for that long! It's really a great service!
Dude
I don't think this is accurate. My understanding is that when using SlyDial, the person WILL see your phone number. You indeed do go straight to voicemail and there is no risk of them picking up the phone and having to talk to them, but they will see a missed call from your number. If you block Caller ID, SlyDial doesn't allow you to use the service.
Jenn
It may have changed since I wrote that post - it's a few years old - but it used to show a SlyDial number, not your own.
Laura
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Jessica Cook
You know that he is cheating still you want more proof ?
Here are some tips :
The easiest is to see his phone ( the call list, messages, Facebook, Twitter,Whatssap, Snapchat messages) wherever a person can have private messages needs to be checked.
But if his phone is password protected and you cannot access it you have to hire a hacker because that is what I did and I got everything diverted from his cellphone directly to mine without touching it.
I noticed how much secrecy he maintained with his phone so I decided that the photo gallery and emails and virtually everything needed to be checked.
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Kimberly Weston
My fiancé has had depression for 2 years now - and to say it is a struggle is a tremendous understatement. So I often search the net for some advice or people going through the same situation so I don't feel so alone and helpless. Here's what I found: there are countless sites devoted to the depressed individual. All offering great practical advice in trying to overcome it. But very few exist for people like us – and those that do, even though they are designed to help those living with people with depression – almost always end up focusing on the depressed person. So when I found this entry, I was pleasantly surprised. You really have been there. I related to almost every word. I still struggle a bit with the advice of "supporting" your loved one instead of telling them what to do. As I have done just that for 2 years. And today he didn't get out of bed for the 4th day in a row. I think there comes a point where "tough love" needs to be considered. I know you can't make people feel, but you can certainly make them get out of bed and go through the motions. Until i came in contact with Dr Amigo the online great caster, he delivered results bountifully without doubt, i am happy that my hubby is free from depression as a result of contact with Dr Amigo, for same help or any kind of help Google his name as Dr Amigo the online spell caster for a review of his full testimony.
Cynthia
Can someone confirm if your number shows up? And/or how to fix it so it won't?
Jenn
It's been a while since I used it - but my friends and I experimented and it did not show a phone number or a missed call!
Unkown
Just a heads up, the phone actually rings as an unknown caller. So if the person declines the call then your actual number shows up on their caller ID and they can actually pick up and speak to you. Not always but sometimes. Try it on your own phone a few times! I tried having the key pad open it seems like that's the only time this happens. Weird but its true. So be careful.
Sarah
What’s the price to hire a hacker?
Lj
If you can get their voicemail password, press star, enter password and you are free to listen to any messages they have. Without them knowing!!!
Sarah
On the flip side, couldn’t this be used by the “side dish” to avoid your partners phone ringing? My bf gets vm notifications often and th phone never rang
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James
I need some assistance very badly. I have already caught my wife being a Scarlett letter. I know she has many online accounts like hi5,tinder,Facebook. 2 years later we hook back up. I still see the same patterns. Idk if it's just me or if I'm being gaslighted?.
Jenn
If she's on dating apps, most likely...she is cheating. I am so sorry!
Hanna
Update Fyi:
It has not changed. As of August, 2019 the service remains the same as It has always been in respect to that function. Slydial does not allow you to block your number. If you attempt to block your number, slydialer won't process the call. A call placed through slydial, as noted will go directly to voicemail without any risk of tbe call being answered. The call will however be logged into the target's phone history as a missed call and that log will include your phone number as as the missed caller's contact information. There is no option or work around to avoid this. That is how the service is designed to function.
Having said that, while this service at face value seems a Godsend for those trying to perform investigative research into potentially disreputable numbers, it was truly designed for making calls to people you intend to leave a voicemail for, but don't care to speak with directly at that juncture in time. In this era of fear and awareness around the issues of accessibility and proliferation of personal information and the privacy and protection of personal information, most people attempting to use this service to uncover infidelity and subterfuge, may be sorely disappointed to discover that virtually nobody records a personal voicemail message anymore (let alone one which states, "Hi, you've reached Slutty McSlut Slutface, please leave me a message after the tone."), opting instead for the service provider's default prerecorded, bot generated voicemail (which simply states the number you have called is unavailable and to leave a message after the tone.) Which is unfortunately the reality of our times and results in you discovering no new information, but the information you already had to have to place the call in the first place. Perhaps, an unwelcome reality check, but simple truth nonetheless.
Hanna
*Note: Please see my comment above. I have confirmed and addressed the concern surrounding this feature of slydial and how it functions.
Bobbie
.I could use some help. My bf is chatting on private messenger..somehow the notifications are coming disguised as websites he has visited..I know this because I tapped one and it failed..when I looked him his browsing history is showed that I had touched it and failed the verification..any ideas?
JSM
Why should we have to go through so much work to get phone records. Privacy and marriage even sounds like an oxymoron. If you want privacy get it in a prenup so you can prevent a wedding.
Marriage does not mean anything anymore.
Mai Ophaice
Right?? Spouses should be looking at maybe why their spouse is trying to distance themselves. Maybe they're looking for an actual friend or anyone who's actually supportive!! I know, there are some men AND women who are just too dumb & selfish to keep it in their own pantsuit! (Hey, it fits both!) I am certainly not defending anyone stupid and selfish enough to wander from a spouse whose supportive and tries!! I'm only referring to the constant naggers who are all too often selfish themselves but think it's ok to spy & make assumptions based on their own self righteous behavior that's every bit as damaging to any family, if not moreso. So before anyone jumps up so quickly on their horses high and mighty, evaluate whether you're doing it out of love, or just because you're pissed & want vengeance. And be honest with yourself about your motives!! Most people are too stupid or narrow minded when they start violating ANYONE'S privacy to even consider first the possibility of innocence. They're usually angry egos trolling for proof. And how many of any of us can honestly say that we're giving as much as we should be to making our spouse happy & comfortable? Any of you who thinks they're giving 95%-100%, you're rotten liars!! And/or self absorbed!!
Amm
2020, October
Currently comes up as "private caller" from my business land line when testing on my personal cell.
Cheetah
Yes im right there with you ms bobbie. I have burnt google up with thousands of apps and trying to catch mine. Which i absolutely know but not having cold hard facts makes me to be like a crazy batty bitch . he has 2 phone and both stay in cognito! I am not a computer wiz and want to hack his stuff but i cant pay $220 for some one to hack into everything.. Please if any yall have any , FBI.CSI tips to prove and catch red handed let your sister know . yall are great 😘
Lisa
This doesn't work if you don't know the voicemail pin.
Leenie Loka
This works on most voice mails..On your phone dial 1 which leads u to your voicemail. It'll say to put ur code but press* star instead & it will say if u have a vm on here press * star. then tap *star again, it'll say to add number with #pound then it goes straight to the person vm without calling or leaving a number..
DO NOT FORGET PRESS 5 FOR CALLER INFO& FORWARD THE MESSAGE TO UR PHONE FOR THE PROOF WHEN THEY TRY TO DENY & LIE.
But first it gives u an option to send back messages. so leave a message to that hoho of u moaning talking dirty saying his name so they'll know and if u kno the hoho name from pressing 5 use her name too. E.g oooh (moaning) ooooh Richard taste this p%==y daddy can u taste how sweet i am? Oooh oooh !! I can't believe hoho (say her name) so stupid (laugh)to know about us. Moaning again. Saying, right there rich dont stop Im coming.(pretend you come) then say babe i think ur phone on.
Press## pound 2x to send. Now everyone gonna have a bad day not just u....hope this helps
joe carlin
love your post you look good
Chad
Some valid points, but cheating emotionally or otherwise is a choice to put yourself before your relationship, your partner or anything else. It is selfish.
I do not mind being asked “are we ok? Because I’ve seen some behavior changes and things that are uncharacteristic of how I have known you to be?” “…and tbh it looks like cheating.”
I think everyone should be ok with that in a committed relationship. It has become the fog of war (love is a battlefield) to say that people asking or being concerned about their partners and status of their relationship is nagging or insecure. The people whom ask typically have very good reason to believe something is up… I typically have thought that my best gf’s and partners had something serious happening with their health or safety or family issue that was not my business when I would see “cheating type” behaviors. I would be mindful and considerate of those possibilities and not be accusing. And give deference to time, place, many other factors… and a couple of times the person was not cheating. The other few they were absolutely cheating or on the cusp. It was like a 30% no cheating rate once the behaviors appeared and were semi-consistent for a few weeks. That means 70% were. Again not all relationships had signs. I was in the military for 13yrs:.. so that’s when I was cheated on the most. I am not innocent for that whole time either. I cheated for about 5 of those years off and on. Just a fling or one night stand.. but I was a dirtbag too. I’m happy to say I do not cheat at all now and have not for over 12yrs. I’ve had 5 partners in that span of time.